The Unforgettable Story of an Adopted Labrador Retriever

by Myke on November 17, 2010

Labrador Retriever

Labrador Retriever

They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie, as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly.

I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open. Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog couldn’t hurt. Give me someone to talk to. And I had just seen Reggie’s advertisement on the local news.

The shelter said they had received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down to see him just didn’t look like “Lab people,” whatever that meant. They must’ve thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis balls, his dishes, and a sealed letter from his previous owner.

See, Reggie and I didn’t really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too. Maybe we were too much alike.

For some reason, his stuff (except for the tennis balls — he wouldn’t go anywhere without two stuffed in his mouth) got tossed in with all of my other unpacked boxes.

I guess I didn’t really think he’d need all his old stuff, that I’d get him new things once he settled in. But it became pretty clear pretty soon that he wasn’t going to.

I tried the normal commands the shelter told me he knew, ones like “sit” and “stay” and “come” and “heel,” and he’d follow them – when he felt like it.

He never really seemed to listen when I called his name — sure, he’d look in my direction after the fourth or fifth time I said it, but then he’d just go back to doing whatever. When I’d ask again, you could almost see him sigh and then grudgingly obey. This just wasn’t going to work. He chewed a couple shoes and some unpacked boxes. I was a little too stern with him and he resented it, I could tell.

The friction got so bad that I couldn’t wait for the two weeks to be up, and when it was, I was in full-on search mode for my cell phone amid all of my unpacked stuff.

I remembered leaving it on the stack of boxes for the guest room, but I also mumbled, rather cynically, that the “damn dog probably hid it on me.”

Finally I found it, but before I could punch up the shelter’s number, I also found his pad and other toys from the shelter…I tossed the pad in Reggie’s direction and he snuffed it and wagged, some of the most enthusiasm I’d seen since bringing him home.

But then I called, “Hey, Reggie, you like that? Come here and I’ll give you a treat.” Instead, he sort of glanced in my direction — maybe “glared” is more accurate — and then gave a discontented sigh and flopped down …. with his back to me.

Well, that’s not going to do it either, I thought. And I punched the shelter phone number.

But I hung up when I saw the sealed envelope.

I had completely forgotten about that, too.

“Okay, Reggie,” I said out loud,  “let’s see if your previous owner has any advice.”

To:  Whoever Gets My Dog

Well, I can’t say that I’m happy you’re reading this, a letter I told the shelter could only be opened by Reggie’s new owner.

I’m not even happy writing it.

If you’re reading this,  it means I just got back from my last car ride with my Lab  after dropping him off at the shelter.

He knew something was different.

I have packed up his pad and toys before and set them by the back door before a trip, but this time… it’s like he knew something was wrong.

And something is wrong…which is why I have to go to try to make it right.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it  will help you bond with him and he with you.

First, he loves tennis balls. The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he’s part squirrel, the way he hordes them.

He usually always has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in there. Hasn’t done it yet.

Doesn’t matter where you throw them, he’ll bound after it, so be careful – really don’t do it by any roads.

I made that mistake once, and it almost cost him dearly.

Next, commands.

Maybe the shelter staff  already told you, but I’ll go over them again:

Reggie knows the obvious ones — “sit,” “stay,” “come,” “heel.”

He knows hand signals: “back” to turn around and go back when you put your hand straight up; and “over” if you put your hand out right or left. “Shake” for shaking water off, and “paw” for a high-five. He does “down” when he feels like lying down — I bet you could work on that with him some more.

He knows “ball” and “food” and “bone” and “treat” like nobody’s business.

I trained Reggie with small food treats.

Nothing opens his ears like little pieces of hot dog.

Feeding schedule: twice a day,  once about seven in the morning, and again at six in the evening.

Regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the brand.

He’s up on his shots. Call the clinic on 9th Street and update his info with yours; they’ll make sure to send you reminders for when he’s due.

Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet.

Good luck getting him in the car.

I don’t know how he knows when it’s time to go to the vet, but he knows.

Finally, give him some time.

I’ve never been married, so it’s only been Reggie and me for his whole life. He’s gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if you can.

He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn’t bark or complain. He just loves to be around people, and me most especially.

Which means that this transition is going to be hard, with him going to live with someone new.

And that’s why I need to share one more bit of info with you….

His name’s not Reggie.

I don’t know what made me do it, but  when I dropped him off at the shelter, I told them his name was Reggie.

He’s a smart dog, he’ll get used to it  and will respond to it, of that I have no doubt.

But I just couldn’t bear to give them his real name.

For me to do that, it seemed so final, that handing him over to the shelter was as good as me admitting that I’d never see him again. And if I end up coming back, getting him, and tearing up this letter, it means everything’s fine. But if someone else is reading it, well … well it means that his new owner should know his real name.

It’ll help you bond with him. Who knows, maybe you’ll even notice a change in his demeanor if he’s been giving you problems.

His real name is “Tank”.

Because that is what I drive.

Again, if you’re reading this and you’re from the area, maybe my name has been on the news.

I told the shelter that they couldn’t make “Reggie” available for adoption until they received word from my company commander.

See, my parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could’ve left Tank with … and it was my only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq , that they make one phone call to the shelter … in the “event” … to tell them that Tank could be put up for adoption.

Luckily, my colonel is a dog guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed.

He said he’d do it personally. And if you’re reading this, then he made good on his word.

Well, this letter is getting downright depressing,  even though, frankly, I’m just writing it for my dog.

I couldn’t imagine if I was writing it for a wife and kids and family … but still, Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has been my family.

And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he loved me.

That unconditional love from a dog is what I take with me to Iraq as an inspiration to do something selfless, to protect innocent people from those who would do terrible things … and to keep those terrible people from coming over here.

If I have to give up Tank in order to do it, I am glad to have done so.

He is my example of service and of love.

I hope I honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that’s enough.

I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at the shelter.

I don’t think I’ll say another good-bye to Tank, though. I cried too much the first time.

Maybe I’ll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home,  and give him an extra kiss goodnight – every night – from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope.

Sure I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even new people like me.

Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver Star when he gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.

“Hey, Tank,” I said quietly.

The dog’s head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.

“C’mere boy.”

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor.

He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn’t heard in months.

“Tank,” I whispered.

His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood him.

I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my face into his scruff and hugged him.

“It’s me now, Tank, just you and me. Your old pal gave you to me.”

Tank reached up and licked my cheek.

“So whatdaya say we play some ball?”

His ears perked again.

“Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?”

Tank tore from my hands and disappeared in the next room.

And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth.

via Scott Stone

{ 23 comments… read them below or add one }

Valinda Fitzhugh 11.19.10 at 2:28 am

I cried.

Myke 11.19.10 at 4:34 pm

It’s hard not to cry.

Gwendolyn 12.10.10 at 4:22 am

What a touching story, I cried like a baby. I also smiled when I read the end of him finally getting all three balls in his mouth. Then I cried some more.

Elizabeth 12.12.10 at 5:35 am

I cried to. Espeacialy when I got to the part about the young man passing away.

Bett S 12.12.10 at 5:36 am

Touching story but it isn’t true. Sorry.

Kym 12.12.10 at 5:44 am

This is the most heart warming and heartbreaking thing I’ve read in a long time. Being the mom of a soldier who was in Iraq and a dog mom this really hits close to home and heart! I am thankful to say my son made it back safely, so many of our young men and women did not…that breaks my heart. I am so happy for Tank and that his 1st dog dad loved him enough to write that letter! I’m sure he got a good laugh too as he watched from heaven as Tank finally managed 3 tennis balls in his mouth at the same time!

Stephanie P. 12.12.10 at 5:44 am

Same – impossible not to cry — They should never have been sent to Iraq, but those who were went to make the world a far safer place regardless of the motivations of those who sent them. This Paul Mallory’s a great hero and a kind soul, bless him, and thank God a kind & sensitive person got his baby.

Barb 12.12.10 at 5:48 am

Yep… I cried on this one. Beautiful!

ned 12.12.10 at 5:57 am

unfortunately it’s not true

Mark G 12.12.10 at 6:04 am

Oh Man, gotta tell you that not much of what I read on the web will bring a tear to me eye but your story sure did and in a good way. Thanks so much for sharing it with us. It’s good to know that Tank’s companion, Paul, was kind enough to leave you a letter sharing his real name with you and giving you his history. I’m sure it brought a tear to you eye after you read it and Tank finally responded.

Dev 12.12.10 at 6:07 am

Even though it’s not a true story, the sad part is that it could just as easily be true. This is such a great picture of why no-kill shelters are so needed. Thanks for the story.

Nancy Ball 12.12.10 at 6:08 am

Always loved this story. Still gives me chills to read it. Thanks for sharing!

Tiffany 12.12.10 at 6:18 am

I don’t know who wouldn’t cry, shed a tear, or just get emotional over this story. Thank you so much for sharing this.

Sabine 12.12.10 at 7:38 am

I couldn’t help but cry……it’s a tear-jerker….especially knowing that Tanks former owner was killed in Iraq…poor doggie…. :(

MyKinKStar 12.12.10 at 11:25 am

Yeah, well, I guess I needed an excuse to break down and cry. Thanks.

Way to go Tank, and thank you Scott for adopting and for hanging in there just long enough.

cindy 12.12.10 at 12:52 pm


Nathalie 12.12.10 at 1:15 pm

I am daughter of American soldier. He served in ‘Nam. I was one of the lucky ones that my dad came back. We moved and traveled all over the states and world during his career in the Army. My parents got us dogs at almost ever base they were stationed at. We always had to leave them behind. Never knowing if we would get base housing. Renting was hard to find for 5 kids much less a dog. I know I would cry for days leaving behind my dogs. They were best friends growing up.
I am so glad that guy took time to read the letter and found a best friend for life. Bless that soldier for leaving that letter for his buddy.

Boulderej 12.12.10 at 5:39 pm

I cried. I have a dog and love him with all my heart.

Karen 12.12.10 at 5:56 pm

I’ve read this before and for some reason read it every time, get choked up each time. By the way, I HATE PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS HAVE TO POINT OUT SOMETHING ISN’T TRUE! You can EAT your “snopes .com”! Sometimes things are written to get a point across you morons! This was very well written and I’m sure was meant to depict another tragdy the war creates…brother….

Joey 10.10.11 at 7:28 pm

I cried,and then I laughed thru the tears.

Kristen 05.09.12 at 1:12 am

Okay for real…how could anyone cry? I am extremely sensitive and empathetic, but this was just outright insensitive. And to Ned who wrote “unfortunately this is not true” and provided the snopes url: shame on you! Unfortunately that a U.S. soldier did not die defending his country and his dog didn’t have to be given up for adoption?! I have several friends over in Afghanistan and more who served in Iraq. A soldier’s story of dying should not be meant for entertainment and a “great” drama story. Please think about that. People should be ashamed of themselves, especially this “Myke” author.

Prasad Hardikar 10.01.12 at 10:50 am

It may or may not be true. Stories have a different purpose than just being true. Please honour the purpose and should you be so critical about whether it is true or not, please do it but keep it to yourself. If somebody asks you you may give your opinion. In present day scenario we need such stories to constantly appeal to our “human” part. In absence of such stories, the human race is doomed to being reduced to just “homo sapiens sapiens” – or simply put – inhuman beings.

Mickey 10.14.12 at 9:32 pm

How did you know that this isn’t true?

But anyways, it made me cry! :( Cried really badly

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